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It is about constant communication and respect, which allows for the fact that there is such a thing as ethical, consensual non-monogamy.

It’s beyond the tactics of submarining, ghosting and whatever the hell you name a person’s lack of commitment when it comes to being a decent human being, but it’s in the same ballpark.

He explained: “I see cis-gendered, heterosexual men looking for an excuse for the same old cheating douchebaggery that they have always indulged in.

This isn’t another term for taking on a mistress or seeing someone behind your partner’s back.

Making us feel embarrassed and old-fashioned for wanting some level of humanity and commitment seems to be the new normal, and the increasing awareness of polyamory is being entirely co-opted for these purposes.

Pseudo-poly bros need to stop exploiting an ideology that thrives on love and commitment, and single women must stand by their values and not allow themselves to be manipulated into a one-sided “relationship”.

Speaking to other single women dating men, it would seem I’m definitely not alone.

There is a clear difference between a polyamorous person saying they’re polyamorous on the first date, and a guy who just doesn’t want to settle down using it as a shield to hide behind.

It’s also a good setup for those who like to get creative in bed – with everyone being into different things in the bedroom, a person who wants to try lots of things can get experimental with more than one person, and learn things from multiple lovers.