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But if you want to, um, then yeah, sure okay I guess I mean if you want to” “Um okay.

I didn’t get it, he was so into me that weekend, what could have possibly changed so dramatically?

I called a few friends to tell them what had just happened and they couldn’t help but laugh at the sheer awfulness and hilarious awkwardness of it all.

We dated for a few months, it never got serious, but I did have fun and I truly enjoyed the time we spent together. And why did he act like such an ass when I called him, only to change his tune 5 minutes later? Maybe he was drunker than I thought and was afraid he had his beer goggles on?

Maybe he was just looking to get laid that night and didn’t feel the need to continue to pursue me when that didn’t happen?

Towards the end of the date, he looked like a fool in love.

He couldn’t pry his eyes away from me and said he had never felt this way about a girl after a second date. There was no doubt in my mind that I’d be hearing from him again and I was right.

You meet, you hit it off, you get really excited because you’ve finally found a great guy, and after that…silence.

Once you’ve hit day four all hope dissipates and you must sadly accept the fact that you will never be hearing from him.

I also learned that a little bit of confidence and courage can go a long way when it comes to getting what you want.

Had I never called J, I probably would have spent many more months wallowing in self-pity thinking that there was something about me that just wasn’t good enough, at least in his eyes.

I looked at him, stunned, “Sorry, I forgot how pretty you are.” The only thought resounding in my head was WTF?!?